Judy Simon

First, let me say that completely opposite of the norm, my major influences for peace, comfort and joy were men in my life and not as many women. These men were able to bring sanity and clear calm thinking, respect for older people, some semblance of honesty and integrity to an otherwise chaotic and frenzied life. They were: my grandfather Theo and poppa Dave.

They were both peacemakers who radiated home, gentleness and wisdom. They were unselfish and by their behavior, taught me how to serve others with graciousness, kindness and patience. They were not formally educated, but in my mind, they were much brighter and more creative than some Ph.D. graduates. Grandpa spoke 8 languages (French, Spanish, Russian, Polish, Hebrew, Yiddish, English and ?). They both had beautiful singing voices. Grandpa was a myriad of talents. Poppa Dave, most of all would listen to his kids, tell wonderful stories, fiction and non-fiction, and helped to see another view of life's problems. They were always ready, but not always available. They both had a bright warm smile and open arms when they saw me coming. (God only knows what they were thinking). They tried to teach me how to sit properly at the table, how to eat without looking like a cavewoman, how to wait for others to be served before digging in. They had a very positive influence on my life.

Mary Zeitler influenced me a great deal in becoming a nurse. She was our neighbor and friend. I also had a crush on Raymond, her son.